WHEN THE ANSWER WILL NOT SETTLE
Some decisions become harder the longer you think about them
You have gathered advice, considered the consequences, and tried to be sensible. Yet the same question keeps returning.
A FAMILIAR PROGRESSION
More information can create more noise.
A decision that began with two options now carries old experiences, other people’s needs, imagined outcomes, and an impression you cannot quite explain.
First
You give it more time
Then
You ask for advice.
Later
You question your instincts.
Eventually
You stop trusting your own thinking.
A MORE USEFUL GOAL
You do not need complete certainty to take a thoughtful next step.
Clarity may mean reaching a decision. It may also mean knowing which question to ask, which assumption to check, or which small action is reasonable now.
What do I know?
What am I assuming?
What do I sense?
What remains unanswered?
A PROCESS FOR GETTING THERE
The SOLVE Method
Five steps help you separate what has become tangled and move toward a decision you can evaluate.
Still
Pause before reacting.
Open
Notice what arises.
Let Go
Release unhelpful pressure.
Verify
Check what you know.
Evaluate
Choose and review.
The decision no longer has to occupy every room you enter.
You may still have uncertainty. You will have a way to work with it rather than waiting for it to disappear.
WHAT CHANGES
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A clearer description of the real problem
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Facts separated from assumptions
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Intuition examined without becoming proof
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Realistic options and a next step
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A method you can use again
LEARN AT YOUR OWN PACE
Bring one real decision into the course.
Bette Freedson guides you through seven private, self-paced lessons. No clinical background or previous experience with intuition is needed.
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About 2 hours
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Downloadable Workbook
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Examples
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Reusable SOLVE guide
Meet Bette
Psychic, Clinical Social Worker, Parenting Expert, and Author.
I’m Bette Freedson, a Clinical Social Worker, author, and intuitive guide. With a unique blend of clinical expertise and intuitive insight, I help my clients connect with the gifts of their inner wisdom and make decisions that align with an authentic, self-connected way of living in the world.
As the author of Soul Mother’s Wisdom and Other Realms, Other Ways, I share my journey of integrating intuition as a key ingredient for both personal and professional growth. My approach to therapy combines traditional modalities with intuitive guidance to offer a holistic path toward clarity, self-discovery and healing.
“You may not leave with every consequence predicted. You may leave knowing what deserves your attention now.”
The SOLVE Method · Self-paced course by Bette Freedson